Back to Square

My meeting this afternoon went well.  Without disclosing too much about my financial details, what happened was, I had to start from scratch, financially.  Not that I have a financial problems, but some convoluted problems within the financial institute I am dealing with, means, I might have to start all over again.  Thank god, all the technical bits of the construction is almost done.  So it is all about sorting out my financial bits and pieces.

We will continue the meeting tomorrow.  Hopefully I will get everything sorted out.  I have one month to solve this problem.  So there is some rush and urgency, but nothing that serious.  Speaking about financial issues, I am having some sort of financial reorganisation.  After today's meeting, we also talked about insurance, and I was introduced to an agent, the insurance is with regards to insure the house, which is mandatory.  I was thinking if I should take up life insurance as well, and maybe perhaps a retirement fund for me.  Who knows, I could be a millionaire when I retire.  Amin!

Today is Baby's best friend's birthday.  I wish her well on her birthday, and for more good years and good things ahead. I'm bored and spending my own sweet time at DeFountain Cafe at Kiulap.  I sort of miss this, during my breakup, I spent a lot of time alone and had many time in my hands to figure out my life.  But since my relationship reconciliation, we spend most of our time together, which is not a bad thing too.  But this time, our relationship has stepped up to a higher level.

Me and Baby, few weeks ago, talked about relationships, not ours, I mean relationship in general.  There have been some tendency and shift focus on relationship based on sex.  We normally experience engaged couples living together and having pre-marital sex.  Is sex important in a relationship?  Perhaps to experience sex compatibility, in fact, some people have pre-engagement sex (during dating or committal resolution) to take the relationship further.  By this I am not being permissive about pre-marital sex.  Everyone is old enough, mature enough to think for themselves.  But I have an open mind about this.  As for my relationship-wise, ha-ha, no comment.

I believe sex compatibility is a factor, though not the main factor or the main determinant of a relationship.  Sex is subjective.  If you're bad at it, learn!  Learn what a man or woman likes.  Then again, certain people likes certain things and not prone to be, let's just say, adventurous.

Some learn from books, porn even, well if one wants to use experience as a way to learn, all I can say it, play safe.  (No more comment)

Hey, this post was supposed to be about my back to square situation with my house.  And it turns out like this...  Why did... never mind, too much digressing I suppose.  Deviating from my purpose.  I checked out where the saying "Back to square one" comes from.  It is actually derived from playing board games (which is almost extinct now).  And certain board games have penalties that makes you go back to square one, where you started.  A bit like the snake and ladder board game.  I miss those kind of games.  I remembered when I was young, me and my cousin always played those game to pass the time.  We were still kids back then, and waiting for the break for fast.  Back in the old days, fasting month equates to a month of holiday.  And those were the good ol' days.  I miss my childhood.  Life was very easy.  I wonder if today's childhood is as simple as our time...

Oh speaking of time, do you realise that those born in 1988 are now 20 years old!  I feel ancient.  How time flies.  In a couple of years, those born in 1990 will be 20 years old.  Goodness me, in 1990 I was more or less a teenager, about to come out to experience the world, learning the lyrics to 'Ice-Ice-Baby' and 'Can't touch this!'  My eldest nephew will be 15 years old in a couple of years...  Where did all that time go?!  Oh well, I suppose it is time for me to settle down, grow up, and think of retirement... Ha-ha...

Oh this turns out to be quite a post.  My-my, things you think about when you're by yourself.  Okay, ranting over.  Everybody have a great time...  Thank god, it's Friday (tomorrow!)  Weekend, here I come! Woo-hoo!

Adios!